Thursday, 3 December 2009

The wrong side of right...

You know when you're eating a Big Mac (or veggie burger lets be PC now), and you're feeling really bad because you know your parent/partner/flat mate has slaved over the stove and cooked you a nice meal tonight?? Are we all aware of this feeling? And the more bad feelings you feel the more you don't care coz OMG this Big Mac tastes so right? No?
Well what I'm trying to get at has no relavence to this idiology lol I'm just kinda hungry and I guess I want a big mac...

No what I AM trying to get at is what are the boundaries of cheating? I mean everyone has different ways of thinking, to one person cheating may mean having feelings for someone else whilst to another person it may mean sleeping with someone else. It's hard to draw a line with such a personal issue. What if you meet the love of your life but what you see as harmless flirting is their absolute definition of being cheated on so it's either change or be changed?
I personally feel that I have cheated in the past. I didn't sleep with this person, there was no physicality involved whatsoever, it was all psychological. We had a great bond and we flirted like mental and talked about everything and both knew exactly how the other felt and I'm kinda ashamed to admit if I had the chance I would have gone there. In my eyes that is cheating, end of. Anyway ooooobviously the relationship I was in at the time didn't last as, well come on I was a twat but most importantly I learnt a great lesson...don't trust anyone with orangutang tits. No that's not it...don't abuse your partners trust!!



Trust is a very delicate thing people, a lot of things in life can be fixed and glued up and mended one way or another, but trust is something so innate. When strong it could lead to some of the best achievements in life but when weak it could be the end of you. I suppose my advice is be careful when handelling people's trust as you don't know how delicate it can be. Once lost it can be almost impossible to get back taking with it love and respect. Don't cross on the wrong side of right no matter how tasty it is...


so next time you see that look of crippling, horrid, stomach wrenching look of disappointment on your girlfriends face when you get home and don't eat a lovingly cooked roast because you were making love to some hot latina half an hour ago, just remember...buy me a big mac please?

Much love and peace and a hot apple pie (2 for 99p)

BE GOOD!!

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