Tuesday, 20 July 2010

so errmm....how do you guys do it?

I didn't think that at the age of 21, my (straight) friends will still be asking me how two women have sex!! Cooome on people! You literally don't even have to use your imaganation for this one. As a student of feminist politics I actually find it a little offensive that people think that sex is impossible without the involvment of a penis and anything without a penis is merely foreplay.

One of my oldest friends came over today and an episode of The L Word happened to be on the telly, conveniently on a sex scene. She watched it for a few minutes and said..."I don't get it, it's fascinating how women have sex". To which I replied..."What would you do to a woman if you were a man with no dick?"... After thinking for a few seconds she said "Everything else?"
I don't get why people, straight girls in particular, have so much difficulty figuring out what goes on between two women. If you can masturbate and make yourself reach orgasm then I'm pretty sure another woman can do it too right? If a woman was confused at how two men can have sex then fair enough but as a woman you should know that pleasing another woman would be a lot easier as you know where it feels the best.

As a woman who has tried both men and women, I can't say one is better than the other. I can tell you which one I prefer (which I won't), but they are both two fundamentally different acts which cannot be compared. Every person has different needs which shapes their sexuality. I can safely say however that if we took a hundred straight women who have never had sex with a woman and got them to agree to have lesbian sex, that ALOT of them would like it and would probably want to try it again regardless of if they are attracted to women or not.

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